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Crux by Gabriel Tallent review â a passionate portrait of teenage climbers
The follow-up to My Absolute Darling, this tale of best friends who dream of a better life features exquisite sports writing and a lovable heroine â but the plotting is unconvincing Tamma and Dan are 17-year-old best friends growing up in a California desert town blighted by the strip-mall nihilism of late capitalism. Theyâre poor. Theyâre unpopular. Their families are a wasteland. But they have each other and their great shared passion: trad rock climbing. Whenever they can, they head to a climbing route â sometimes a boulder at the edge of a disused parking lot, sometimes a cliff an hourâs hike into a national park â and climb, often with no gear but their bloodied bare hands and tattered shoes. This is the premise of Crux, the second novel from Gabriel Tallent, the author of the critically acclaimed My Absolute Darling. At its heart, itâs a sports novel, and Tallentâs prose here is precise and often exquisite, inching through a few seconds of movement in a way that reflects the unforgiving nature of climbing. We get a lot of closeups of granite and faint half-moons in rock that suddenly become âthe worldâs numinous edgeâ. The language of climbing â a dialect of brainy dirtbags â is a gift to the writer. Tallentâs characters talk about âflashing bouldering problemsâ and âsending Fingerbang Princessâ; a list of routes with âPoodleâ in the title includes Poodle Smasher, Astropoodle, Poodle-Oids from the Deep, A Farewell to Poodles, and For Whom the Poodle Tolls. Tallent also has an extraordinary gift for descriptions of landscape; a road is âoverhung with stooping desert lilies, tarantulas braving the tarmac in paces, running full out upon their knuckly shadows, the headlights smoking with windblown sandâ. Continue reading...
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On the Future of Species by Adrian Woolfson review â are we on the verge of creating synthetic life?
A genomic entrepreneurâs guide to the coming revolution in biology raises troubling questions about ethics and safety The prophet Ezekiel once claimed to have seen four beasts emerge from a burning cloud, âsparkling like the colour of burnished brassâ. Each had wings and four faces: that of a man, a lion, an ox and an eagle. Similarly, a creature called Buraq, something between a mule and a donkey with wings and a human face, was said to have carried the prophet Muhammad on his journeys; while the ancient Greeks gave us the centaur, the mythical human-horse hybrid recently rebooted by JK Rowling in the Harry Potter books. âThe impulse to blend the anatomical traits of other species with those of humans appears to be hardwired into our imagination,â notes Adrian Woolfson in his intriguing and disturbing analysis of a biological revolution he believes is about to sweep the planet. Very soon, we will not only dream up imaginary animals â we will turn them into biological reality. Continue reading...
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Marwan Barghouti, âPalestineâs Mandelaâ, to publish book from prison
Unbroken: In Pursuit of Freedom for Palestine is a collection of writings by the Palestinian political leader, who has been held in Israeli prisons since 2002 A collection of writings by the imprisoned Palestinian political leader Marwan Barghouti will be published in November, bringing together prison letters, interviews, personal material and documents from the last three decades of Barghoutiâs political life and incarceration. As deadly attacks on Gaza continue despite a nominal ceasefire, the 66-year-old is seen by many as the best hope for a leader of any future Palestinian state. Continue reading...
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Neil Gaiman claims sexual assault allegations are result of âsmear campaignâ
Author says accusations âspread and amplifiedâ by people more interested in âoutrage and getting clicksâ Neil Gaiman has said that multiple sexual assault allegations against him are âsimply untrueâ and claimed to be the victim of a âsmear campaignâ, in the first post addressing the accusations for almost a year. Gaiman, 65, author of novels including American Gods and the Ocean at the End of the Lane, has faced allegations of sexual abuse and coercive behaviour, which were outlined in a podcast by the Tortoise Media team in July 2024. Continue reading...
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The Good Society by Kate Pickett review â the Spirit Level author takes stock
A whistle-stop tour of the greatest hits of progressive policy fails to take account of a central conundrum If youâve written a successful book based around one big idea, what do you make the next one about? Back in 2009, Kate Pickettâs The Spirit Level (co-authored with Richard Wilkinson) argued that inequality was the ultimate cause of almost all our social problems, from obesity and teenage pregnancy to violent crime; more equal societies, they claimed, had better outcomes across the board. While criticised â as most âbig ideaâ books are â for overstating the case and cherrypicking evidence, they struck a chord, and some aspects of their thesis are now mainstream. However, when it comes to the UK, there is an awkward problem, both for Pickett and for economists like me who, while not entirely convinced by The Spirit Level, would still like to see a more equal society. In the first chapter of Pickettâs new book, inequality is once again the root of all (social) evils: âif you know a countryâs level of inequality, you can do a pretty good job of predicting its infant mortality rate, or prevalence of mental illness, or levels of homicide or imprisonmentâ. By contrast, she argues that GDP or GDP growth are very poor measures of overall welfare. Pickett then goes on to list the ways in which the UK has become a worse place to live since 2010 â higher child poverty, flattening life expectancy and child mortality, more people in prison. Continue reading...
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White River Crossing by Ian McGuire review â colonial greed drives a doomed hunt for gold
The author of The North Water vividly captures bleak beauty and brutish appetites on an 18th-century expedition into the frozen wilds of Canada It was Ian McGuireâs second novel, The North Water, longlisted for the Booker prize in 2016 and later adapted for television, that established his reputation for savage historical noir. A professor of American literature at the University of Manchester, McGuire specialises in the late 19th-century realist tradition; at its best his work blends the unsparing violence of Cormac McCarthy with a bleak lyricism reminiscent of Welsh poet RS Thomas. Both The North Water, set onboard a whaling ship dispatched from Hull to Baffin Bay in 1859, and The Abstainer, inspired by the hanging of three Irish rebels in Manchester a decade later, probed the grisly underbelly of Victorian imperialism, harsh worlds where a âmanâs life on its own is nothing much to talk aboutâ. In White River Crossing, McGuire travels across the Atlantic and back another 100 years to the Prince of Wales Fort, a remote trading post of the Hudsonâs Bay Company in what is now northern Manitoba. Founded by royal charter in 1670 and granted sole right of trade and commerce across some 1.5m sq km of territory, the British venture was established to exploit the indigenous fur trade, but investors also hoped for other profitable discoveries, particularly silver and gold. Continue reading...
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Stormzy calls reading a âsuperpowerâ as he backs accessible books campaign
The musician is championing the annual Quick Reads initiative, which will release six short, digestible titles for ânonreaders and lapsed readersâ in April for ÂŁ1 each Stormzy called reading a âsuperpowerâ as he backed an initiative aimed at encouraging people who donât see themselves as readers to pick up a book. The musicianâs publishing imprint #Merky Books, which is part of Penguin, is publishing one of this yearâs six Quick Reads â short, accessible books created âspecifically for nonreaders, lapsed readers, people with short attention spans, and neurodivergent readersâ, according to The Reading Agency, which has run the Quick Reads initiative for 20 years. Continue reading...
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This monthâs best paperbacks: Anne Tyler, Jason Allen-Paisant and more
Looking for a new reading recommendation? Here are some great new paperbacks, from a Renaissance romp to an ode to optimism Continue reading...
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The best books of 2025
New novels from Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and Ian McEwan, plus the return of Slow Horses and Margaret Atwood looks back ⊠Guardian critics pick the must-read titles of 2025 The Guardianâs fiction editor picks the best of the year, from Chimamanda Ngozi Adichieâs Dream Count to Thomas Pynchonâs return, David Szalayâs Booker winner and a remarkable collection of short stories. Continue reading...
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What weâre reading: George Saunders, Erin Somers and Guardian readers on the books they enjoyed in January
Writers and Guardian readers discuss the titles they have read over the last month. Join the conversation in the comments Lately Iâve been going back to read some classic works that I had, in my zany life-arc, missed, in the (selfish) hope of opening up new frequencies in my work. So: Aliceâs Adventures in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass by Lewis Carroll (the zaniness seems to lack agenda and yet still says something big and political); then on to Speak, Memory by Nabokov, newly reminded that language alone (dense, beautiful) can power the reader along; and, coming soon, The Power Broker by Robert A Caro â a real ambition-inspirer, Iâm imagining, in its scale and daring. Continue reading...
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Wise by Frank Tallis review â how to turn your midlife crisis into a heroâs journey
A psychologistâs gripping guide to surviving dark nights of the soul offers both comfort and insight Iâm proud of how mild-mannered my midlife crisis is. While the cliche involves the purchase of a Porsche or a frantic fling with a colleague, Iâve mainly fallen back into the geeky preoccupations of my youth, such as founding poetry clubs and playing niche racket sports. Nevertheless, on the cusp of turning 50, and having just been beaten by my 11-year-old at Scrabble, Iâm thrilled to have found a book that addresses my small struggle: an elegant discourse on the deep wisdom that Iâm hoping will characterise my remaining years. First, the author, a clinical psychologist named Frank Tallis, diagnoses the problem. Following some of the arguments in Ernest Beckerâs 1973 study The Denial of Death, he proposes that such crises are at least partly the result of the western reluctance to face mortality. In Britain, we eschew open coffins, for instance. When our relatives die, as my mother did two years ago, they die in a hospital rather than at home. We can hardly even bring ourselves to say âdieâ, preferring euphemisms such as âpass awayâ. In this Instagram age, our lives are dominated by filters and distractions. The crisis strikes when reality canât be held at bay any longer. We lose our parents. Then we notice, inevitably, that we are now at the front of the queue. Continue reading...
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David Bowie and the Search for Life, Death and God by Peter Ormerod review â the making of a modern saint
An exhilarating account of Bowieâs spirituality and the quasi-religious nature of his work, from Space Oddity to Blackstar It has become a tired cliche among fans to say that everything went wrong in the world after Bowie died in 2016. It also misses the point: rather than being one of the last avatars of a liberal order that has crumbled around our ears, Bowie prophesied the mayhem that has replaced it. In his later years, he thought that we had entered a zone of chaos and fragmentation. This is what allowed him to be so prescient about the internet â not its promise, but its menace. There is no plan and no order. There is just disaster and social collapse. Those looking for reassurance should not listen to Bowie (please listen to something, anything, else). His world, from Space Oddity through to the background violence of The Next Day and Blackstar, was always drowned or destroyed or incinerated: âThis ainât rockânâroll, this is genocideâ as he exclaims at the beginning of Diamond Dogs. Continue reading...
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Two Women Living Together by Kim Hana and Hwang Sunwoo review â the Korean bestseller about platonic partnership
A quietly revolutionary account of cohabiting captured a nationâs heart â but what does it mean for the rest of the world? When Sunwoo and Hana met on Twitter, they were in their 40s and committed bachelorettes. Both raised by the sea in Busan, they studied in Seoul before entering the cityâs famously brutal rat race, Sunwoo as a fashion journalist, Hana as a copywriter. They shared the same taste in music and books, and importantly, both had rejected marriage. No wonder. In South Koreaâs stubbornly patriarchal culture, women in dual-income families spend nearly three hours more a day on household chores than men. Instead, Sunwoo and Hana joined the large number of South Koreans living alone. At first, independence felt exhilarating. By middle age however, loneliness was beginning to gnaw, and their boxy studio apartments felt oppressively small. Two Women Living Together, a 2019 South Korean bestseller that spawned a popular podcast, charts Sunwoo and Hanaâs decision to buy a sunlit house together and live not as a romantic couple but as friends. Across 49 warm, chatty essays, they invite us into the life they share with four cats, reflecting on everything from the food they love to their retirement fantasies. Continue reading...
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The Bed Trick by Izabella Scott review â a bizarre story of sexual duplicity
A brilliant analysis of the trial of Gayle Newland and the literary and social antecedents of âsex by deceptionâ In September 2015, Gayle Newland stood trial accused of sex by deception. It was alleged that she created an online identity as a man and used this character, Kye Fortune, to lure another woman into a sexual relationship, which was consummated repeatedly with the assistance of a blindfold and a prosthetic penis. The woman believed she was having sex with Kye until one day her ring caught on his hat and she felt long hair. Tearing off her blindfold, she realised her male lover was actually her female friend. As these lurid, almost fairytale details seeped out, the case went viral. âSex attacker who posed as man found guiltyâ was one of the milder headlines. The trial caught Izabella Scottâs attention because it was a real-life example of a plot device she recognised from literature. The bed trick can be found in folk stories and operas, in Chaucer and Shakespeare. Often told for comic effect, it concerns sex by trickery and deception, under cover of darkness. âThe plot suggests,â Scott writes, âthat, in bed, anyone might be mistaken for anyone else.â Continue reading...
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Rebel English Academy by Mohammed Hanif review â a sure-fire Booker contender
This funny and subversive novel reckons with life under martial law in late-70s Pakistan Mohammed Hanifâs novels address the more troubling aspects of Pakistani history and politics with unhinged, near-treasonous irreverence. His 2008 Booker-longlisted debut, A Case of Exploding Mangoes, was a scabrously comic portrait of General Zia-ul-Haq in the days leading up to his death in a suspicious plane crash in 1988. Masquerading as a whodunnit, it was a satire of religiosity and military authoritarianism. Dark, irony-soaked comedy that marries farce to unsparing truth-telling was also the chosen mode for other vexed subjects, from violence against women and religious minorities in Our Lady of Alice Bhatti to the war machine in Red Birds. Hanifâs prickly new novel confirms his standing as one of south Asiaâs most unnervingly funny and subversive voices. The story kicks off right after ousted socialist PM Zulfikar Ali Bhutto is put to death by army chief turned autocrat Zia. Following the execution, disgraced intelligence officer Gul has been posted to OK Town, a sleepy backwater where he âwould need to create his own entertainment and come up with a mission to shine on this punishment postingâ. Continue reading...
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The best recent translated fiction â review roundup
White Moss by Anna Nerkagi; The Old Fire by Elisa Shua Dusapin; The Roof Beneath Their Feet by Geetanjali Shree; Berlin Shuffle by Ulrich Alexander Boschwitz White Moss by Anna Nerkagi, translated by Irina Sadovina (Pushkin, ÂŁ12.99) âYou, too, need a woman!â Alyoshkaâs mother tells him in this slim Russian novel originally published in the 1990s. âEven a plain one, as long as her hands and legs arenât crooked.â And Alyoshka, part of the nomadic Nenets people in the Russian Arctic, does find a wife, but canât consummate their marriage: heâs still in love with a girl who left for the city years ago. This novel takes us around the camp, from Alyoshkaâs family to Petko and his friend Vanu discussing old age to a new arrival who shares his tragic story of alcohol addiction: âThe devil had entered my soul, and it was fun to be with him.â Meanwhile, Soviet representatives, intended to support the Nenets people, come and go: âThey didnât stick, because strictly speaking there was nothing to stick to.â This story of a solid community where people stick instead with one another is a perfect warming tale for winter. The Old Fire by Elisa Shua Dusapin, translated by Aneesa Abbas Higgins (Daunt, ÂŁ14.99) Agathe, a 30-year-old French woman living in New York, is so estranged from her sister VĂ©ra that when she receives a text message saying âPapaâs deadâ, she replies: âWho is this?â Now she returns to the family home in the Dordogne to help clear out his things. âIf we set fire to the books, thereâd be nothing left.â Relations remain difficult: VĂ©ra communicates only by text message; she hasnât spoken since the age of six. This is a book of absence and silence â village shops are closed, streets deserted, Agatheâs husband in the US doesnât reply to her â and written with apt spareness. âIâm following the advice of decluttering influencers,â Agathe tells us, but itâs her past that she needs to offload, and slowly we learn the history of the family breakup. The balance between revelation and continued mystery makes this book both tantalising and satisfying. Continue reading...
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Lost Lambs by Madeline Cash review â clever comedy for our conspiracy theory age
This tender satire of a dysfunctional American familyâs search for moral guidance is precisely what our times need Making the comic novel succeed is a rich, tricky project in our age of desperate, sometimes weirdly eager apocalypticism. Madeline Cash has spotted that a combination of tenderness and satire may be precisely what our times require. Lost Lambs, her debut novel about the Flynn family, is a witty, quickfire book set in a small American town, punch-drunk on clever, skewering lists and infested typographically by the gnats that plague the local church the family attends (âexplagnationâ, âextermignationâ). The Flynns are in a mess. It was easy for Catherine and Bud to be passionate when he was a young rock star and she was an aspiring artist. But since then theyâve acquired three daughters and a lot of Tupperware. Catherine succumbs to the advances of Jim, an amateur artist who gives her âthe youthful comfort of being understoodâ. Heâs rekindled her artistic ambitions, prompting her to decorate the Flynn house with nude self-portraits and proclaim an open marriage. She doesnât yet know that Jim has a collection of pottery vaginas in his basement (âeach of these pussies has touched my lifeâ). Continue reading...
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The Puma by Daniel Wiles review â a visceral tale of cyclical violence
A father and son move to the Patagonian woods â but intensity wanes when a search for home becomes an obsessive quest for revenge When the protagonist of Daniel Wilesâs debut novel Merciaâs Take, set in a mining community during the industrial revolution, left a bag of gold downstairs unprotected and then went to bed, I actually closed the book, in an attempt to stop the unfolding disaster. After finding this seam of gold, miner Michael dreams that his son will be able to go to school, rather than join the other children who work in the mine, like âblind, bald rodents unearthing themselves in search of scraps of candlelightâ. In the novel, which won the 2023 Betty Trask prize, everything closes in on Michael: lungs clog, tunnels collapse, horse-drawn narrowboats are attacked by robbers in the sooty dusk. Itâs a vivid reminder of the cost, in bodily suffering, of resource extraction. The Puma, Wilesâs second novel, is also a serious and intense historical novel about a father with limited resources who attempts to break a cycle of violence. In the early 1950s Bernardo, a more morally ambiguous figure than Michael, has brought his young son James across the Atlantic from England to the house in the Patagonian woods where he himself grew up. James chatters blithely about becoming a footballer, but Bernardo is distracted. He thinks he sees âshadows of his family walking in and outâ, reminding him of a childhood in which âhis eyes were wide and hurt by the twilight and he was barefooted and emptyheartedâ. Continue reading...
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Children and teens roundup â the best new picture books and novels
Caring canines; daring donuts; a golden monkey; a boy from another planet; a dark take on Little Women and more The Good Deed Dogs by Emma Chichester Clark, Walker, ÂŁ12.99 Three very good dogsâ attempts to help others keep backfiring with chaotic consequences â until they pull off a successful kitten rescue in this exuberantly charming picture book. Auntieâs Bangles by Dean Atta and Alea Marley, Orchard, ÂŁ12.99 Everyone misses Auntie, especially the jingle of her jewellery; but eventually Theo and Rama are ready to put on her bangles and dance to celebrate her memory. A sweet, poignant picture book about loss, joy and remembrance. Continue reading...
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Children and teens roundup â the best new picture books and novels
The return of Charlie and Lola; the second lives of trees; the dangers of time travel; a YA Bluebeard retelling and more The Street Where Santa Lives by Harriet Howe and Julia Christians, Little Tiger, ÂŁ12.99 When an old man moves in on a busy street, only his little neighbour notices; with his white beard and round belly, sheâs convinced heâs Santa. But when Santa falls ill, other neighbours must rally round to take care of him. Will he be better in time for Christmas? This sweet, funny, acutely observed picture book is a festive, joyous celebration of community. I Am Wishing Every Minute for Christmas by Lauren Child, S&S, ÂŁ12.99 Twenty-five years after their first appearance, this delightful, engaging new Charlie and Lola picture book is filled with Lolaâs excited impatience as she and her big brother get everything ready for Christmas. Continue reading...
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Children and teens roundup â the best new picture books and novels
The healing power of gardens; celebrating an abolitionist; hope in the toughest times; a gladiator romantasy and more The Butterfly House by Harry Woodgate, Andersen, ÂŁ12.99 Miss Brownâs wild garden scares most people, but when Holly discovers her reclusive neighbourâs sadness, she decides to help turn the wilderness into a butterfly haven. A beautiful, moving picture book about the healing power of gardens and community. The History of We by Nikkolas Smith, Rock the Boat, ÂŁ8.99 Via rich, dynamic paintings and thoughtful pared-back text, Smith answers the question âWhat does the beginning look like?â with this powerful picture book, the shared story of humanityâs first ancestors in âthe fertile cradle of Africaâ. Continue reading...
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Children and teens roundup â the best new picture books and novels
A bothered bear; a great guide to drawing; a life of Josephine Baker; a role model daughter; a search for words and more Bearâs Nap by Emily Gravett, Two Hoots, ÂŁ12.99 Someone is cheeping and keeping Bear from sleeping in this increasingly uproarious picture book filled with forest-dwelling creatures and their noises. A joy to read aloud. This Is Who I Am by Rashmi Sirdeshpande, illustrated by Ruchi Mhasane, Andersen, ÂŁ12.99 A moving celebration of heritage and identity, this softly coloured picture book follows a little girl with âa foot in two worldsâ, who is both âthe richness of all the worlds she belongs toâ and uniquely, proudly herself. Continue reading...
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Wimpy Kid author Jeff Kinney: âIâve sold 300m books. Whatâs next?â
As the 20th book in his Diary of a Wimpy Kid series is published, the author shows no signs of slowing down â scripting films, opening a bookshop and making plans to rebuild his hometown Watching Jeff Kinney sign books is akin to watching an elaborate piece of performance art. Backstage at a theatre in Chester, where the author is continuing his UK tour, three folding tables heave under the weight of thousands of copies. Kinney wheels round the table on a swivel chair, signing as he goes. He is a picture of total focus. Today Kinney is signing copies of Partypooper, the 20th book in his blockbuster Diary of a Wimpy Kid series. Every copy bears the phrase âOver 300 million books soldâ. To put that into perspective, Kinney has sold more books than Led Zeppelin have sold albums. If youâve had â or been â a child of reading age at any point over the last couple of decades, Kinney is a rock star. And nowhere is that clearer than at his sold-out event later that evening, as he is custard-pied while a crowd of 800 children and parents scream with excitement. Continue reading...
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Fatima Bhutto on her abusive relationship: âI thought it could never happen to meâ
Fifteen years after her explosive memoir of growing up in Pakistanâs ruling political dynasty, the author has written a devastating account of the abuse she has since endured. She talks about a life on the run and finally settling down Had Fatima Bhutto been left to her own devices, her devastating forthcoming memoir would have been almost entirely about her relationship with her dog, Coco. âI know it sounds nuts,â she laughs. And itâs true that being dog-crazy doesnât quite track with the public perception of Bhutto as a writer, journalist, activist and member of Pakistanâs most famous political dynasty. But the pandemic had forced something of a creative unravelling and when Bhutto took stock, she found herself only really able to write about Coco. Her agent politely suggested her memoir might need something more. A second draft was written, then abandoned. âUntil I thought, what if I just tell the truth? And then it fell out of me â it didnât even pour, it fell.â In around three weeks Bhutto had reworked her draft and, in the process, revealed a shocking chapter of her life that sheâd kept secret from everyone around her. Continue reading...
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Green Dot author Madeleine Gray: âChosen family is big in the queer communityâ
Madeleine Gray has followed her hit debut with a sharp take on complicated parenting. She discusses love, sex and famous fans Madeleine Gray remembers the first time she had an inkling that her debut novel might become a big deal. When she received news of her advance from her agent, she was âexpecting a pittanceâ; the number was in the six figures. âI thought: holy fuck, thereâs been a mistake,â the 31-year-old author laughs. âBy the time Green Dot was published last autumn, it had already been hailed as one of the most anticipated novels of the year, and was quickly beloved, drawing comparisons with Bridget Jones, Fleabag and Annie Ernaux. Nigella Lawson and Gillian Anderson posted praise for the book. Were those celebrity endorsements exciting, I ask her. âIâm gay,â she replies, her enthusiasm leaping through the screen; âare you kidding?! I follow Gillian on Instagram, obviously.â When she saw Anderson post a selfie with the book, âthe scream that came out of me was primalâ. Continue reading...
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Susan Choi: âFor so long I associated Dickens with unbearable Christmas TV specialsâ
The Booker-shortlisted novelist on the seismic effect of Sigrid Nunez, and wanting to write like Virginia Woolf My earliest reading memory
Asking my mom if she could stop reading my bedtime book to me and just let me read it on my own, since I felt she was going too slowly. The book was either Charlie and the Chocolate Factory or its sequel, Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator, both by Roald Dahl. My favourite book growing up
I loved Stuart Little, and all his small, clever things â his tiny canoe, his tiny sailboat. He had such a relaxed demeanor and was so dapper! I also loved Mary Nortonâs The Borrowers series â tiny people living under the floorboards and improvising household goods out of âborrowedâ safety pins and match boxes and so on. Clearly I had a thing for miniatures. Continue reading...
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Why you should embrace rejection
From building resilience to boosting artistic creativity, there are unexpected benefits to being rebuffed Rejection hurts. Whether in a professional, social or romantic setting, there is a particularly painful sting to the discovery that one has been judged undesirable in some way. If you have ever experienced proper rejection â and that would be most of us â it may stand out in your mind for a long time, like a boulder lodged in the landscape of memory. And it can hurt literally. The late anthropologist Helen Fisher, who studied human behaviour in the context of romantic love, showed that rejection and physical injury have much in common. In 2010 she led a study of people who had been recently rejected romantically. Functional MRI scans of their brains revealed that areas associated with distress and physical pain were more active. The passage of time did seem to reduce the pain response for Fisherâs participants, but for some people rejection can resonate for months or years. This overlap in the brainâs response to what we think of as physical and mental pain isnât limited to romance. Social psychologist Naomi Eisenberger scanned the brains of people who were socially excluded from a ballgame in an experiment. Her results showed that âsocial pain is analogous in its neurocognitive function to physical pain, alerting us when we have sustained injury to our social connectionsâ. Continue reading...
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Virgin by Hollie McNish audiobook review â myth-shattering poetry about purity and sex
The author and spoken word artistâs delivery is full of tenderness and humour as she confronts the outdated notions of innocence that surround women The latest collection by the poet Hollie McNish is dedicated to anyone who has been âblamed, shamed, pressured, tortured, dehumanised, de-mothered over a man-made concept about your own bodyâ. Virgin is a series of poems and prose stories aimed at busting myths and challenging stereotypes about sex and the body. McNish tackles the persistently weird and outdated notions of innocence and purity around young women: âDo not tell me which touches have mattered the most / This is your obsession not mine.â In Send Nudes she notes how any shame about those who have sent âa snapshot of your body stripped autumn bareâ lies with the person who broke trust by sharing or mocking it, and not with the sender. Continue reading...
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Poem of the week: The Secret Day by Stella Benson
Writing towards the end of the first world war, the poet, novelist, journalist and suffragist Benson here dreams of a secure peace The Secret Day My yesterday has gone, has gone and left me tired,
And now tomorrow comes and beats upon the door;
So I have built To-day, the day that I desired,
Lest joy come not again, lest peace return no more,
Lest comfort come no more. Continue reading...
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